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23rd Squared

Twenty-three years ago Kathy and I were married. We had recently finished college in Virginia and spent two weeks hurriedly throwing together the last details of our wedding. A number of Kathy’s girl friends from college came and worked for a whole week in advance, and the big day came together.

It has been a pretty good life, if I do say so myself. We have laughed a lot, raised five children, and been involved in many different kinds of ministry at various churches. We are both very hopeful that we will be able to grow old together, if the Lord permits (and if He doesn’t return).

For our 20th anniversary, we traveled to our favorite Caribbean island of Providenciales, but this year we just stayed home, puttered around the house, had a date at Lowe’s and went out for dinner at our favorite Thai restaurant. As Kathy remarked, “When your every-day life is as good as this, it is hard to feel deprived when your celebration is low-key.”

A few months ago, I stopped drinking Diet Coke. Well, technically, I only stopped buying Diet Coke. I can drink it if someone else buys it for me, but for some reason my friends and acquaintances haven’t been lining up to buy me my favorite soda. I keep dropping subtle hints (like this blog post) but it doesn’t seem to do any good.

My Sweetie is good to me, especially when she buys me Diet Coke.

My Sweetie is good to me, especially when she buys me Diet Coke.

As a ‘thank-you-for-writing-AWANA-software’ gift, Kathy gave me two twelve-packs of Diet Coke — it still brings a tear to my eye when I think of her thoughtfulness.

We also are celebrating Joshua’s homecoming this evening — he flew home tonight to spend a week with us before he rushes off to his summer-long research fellowship at Baylor University. It is such fun to have the whole family re-united, if only for a few days.

Joshua was tired from his travels, but cheerful and full of interesting stories, as usual.

Joshua was tired from his travels, but cheerful and full of interesting stories, as usual.

Welcome home, Joshua! Happy Anniversary, Beloved!

Project 365, Day 143
Tim

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Haircut Time

I feel I should apologize for writing so many blog posts about Rachel, but really, when she and Joshua are off at college, we write almost exclusively about David, Sarah, and Daniel. Therefore, some would say I have to double up on Rachel to give her fair representation.

"I leave for a few months, and you forget me.  Sigh."

“I leave for a few months, and you forget me. Sigh.”

Poor Joshua, he comes home tomorrow for a week. I guess every Project 365 will be centered on his TOO SHORT visit.

So excited to have him home!!!!

Things are coming to a close for the year. We celebrated the final AWANA ceremony this week. Our homeschool co-op ended several weeks ago. David and Sarah’s TPS (online) classes finished up this week. Their only remaining assignment is a final math test. Sarah completed her spelling today, and both kids did their last lessons of health. Wow! Love it when the end of a fabulous, but long, year is in sight. Ahhhh.

I slipped out of the house early this morning for coffee and a quick visit with two friends. The kids did school, then Rachel and I went to the salon for a summer haircut. A friend from church gave me a referral to her hair salon which came with an incredible discount on a cut.

This is as close to a before as I remembered to take.

Forgot to take a “before” picture. This is “in the middle.”

The stylist was so helpful – she pulled up a little footstool so I could sit with Rachel while she got her hair cut and styled, gave helpful advice about style and length, and did a GREAT job on Rachel’s cut.

Love the clip!

Love the clip!

Always enjoy outings with my oldest girl!

Always enjoy outings with my oldest girl!

Rachel celebrated her gorgeous new look with two handsome young men. Okay, they were 3 and 6, but still, I’m sure they really appreciated Rachel getting a makeover before babysitting. :)

David is jealous of Rachel’s new look. He wants a haircut himself and has been asking me for several days now (in his very respectful, typical David manner). Somehow the days keep zipping to an end with NO hair cut. Sorry, buddy. Tomorrow?

Does the hair add to his height?

Twins?

Twins?

Rachel isn’t ready for her younger siblings to get taller than her.

Um, I don't think that works, Rach.

Um, I don’t think that works, Rach.

Tomorrow we will get the house cleaned up for Joshua’s arrival. Always a good excuse to make everyone clean. Ooops, did I say that out loud?

Project 365 – Day 142
Kathy

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AWANA Aftermath

Yesterday was the Award Ceremony for our AWANA program — the final hurrah for a year of memorizing verses, playing games and performing skits. Our whole family is involved, with Sarah on the Drama/Serve Team, David splitting his time between Drama and Sparks, Kathy serving as an admin for the T&T program, and Daniel in Games.

At the end of the year, we’re all tired. We’re glad we had the privilege of being part of the AWANA program, and we’re even more glad that it is over. When we staggered into the house last night, we had just enough energy to eat supper and to get to bed.

These blend supplies stand as a monument to a successful Smoothie Extravaganza after the Award Ceremony.

These blend supplies stand as a monument to a successful Smoothie Extravaganza after the Award Ceremony.

For the summer, we rest. I know (by experience) that September will be here before we know it. Maybe by then, I’ll have cleaned up my smoothie supplies.

Project 365, Day 141
Tim

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Serve, Act, Lead, Love

This year I started a Drama and Serve Team within our church’s AWANA program. I had been wanting to find a way to transition kids from T&T (3rd – 5th grades) to becoming useful members of the church body. So often it seems that we expect very little from our children in Junior High and High School — I wanted to encourage the kids to be leaders, rather than spectators.

Each week, I taught the kids about servant leadership and encouraged them to actively encourage others in the church through acts of service and thankfulness. One night we simply wrote thank-you notes to people in the church who had served us. Another evening we made box lunches for all those who work in the AWANA program (about 36). We detailed people’s cars, made treats for the choir, created gift baskets for the pastors, and even cleaned and organized the church resource room.

When we weren’t working on service projects, we practiced and performed skits for the Sparks and T&T Council Time programs. I taught the kids about props, stage directions, acting, lighting and sound, and even script writing.

We had a great year. I really came to love my dozen Champions — I am excited to see how God will continue to use and grow them as they serve and love Him more and more.

Blend Commandos at work.

Blend Commandos at work.

As our finale, we served smoothies to all the kids (and their families) who came to the AWANA Award Ceremony. It was truly inspiring to see the kids working as a team — some measuring out the ingredients for the blends, others dispensing the smoothies, still others adding whipped cream and straws. We made a mess, had a lot of fun, and satisfied the whole crowd.

I can hardly wait until next year!

Project 365, Day 140
Tim

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I’m Home by Rachel

Thank you for writing today’s blog, Rachel!!

Hello. I haven’t been a guest blogger since I was 11, so please don’t expect greatness. (I think my last blog was about cats, so it was probably better than this will be.)

Last August I traveled to the rarely spoken of, far off land in the south called Tennessee. What an adventure it was. Since I had ventured overseas more than once, I did not expect large differences in culture. I was quite unprepared for the south, with its sweet tea, hot temperatures, flat terrain, and popular Christian influence. Not to mention all of its environmental differences.

In the first few weeks of my college journey, I was so desperate to see water that I often found myself drawn to the fountain in the middle of campus. I would perch on the side, close my eyes, and pretend to hear the waves crashing against the gravely shores of Washington. I was also inconveniently battered by the wind and often thought: where are the mountains to protect me from these gusts?

Horror of all horrors, because of the intense rains of the Tennessean summer, I had to beg the use of an umbrella. I know, I know, it was mortifying. I lived in fear that someone from Seattle would see me with this forbidden contraption. Although I soon realized that it was socially acceptable to use an umbrella, how convenient!

Socially, my manners were also somehow off. My friends giggled at my “strange” behavior (straws in my drinks, eagerness to discuss feelings, coffee anytime all the time, loudness, blunt honesty, etc,) and patted my shoulder sweetly as they explained to others, “She’s a northerner.” I laughed with them, but I must admit I stubbornly refused to change.

Love this view!

Love this view!

Flying home this past weekend, (first class, I’m not kidding, – thanks dad) the plane dipped beneath the clouds, and suddenly I was confronted with water. Wonderfully, beautifully clear, blue water. Next my eyes rested on the deep green of the tall trees and the snow dusted mountains. I nearly cried with the beauty of it. (I also may or may not have been running on a semester of very little sleep, but no matter.)

Today is my fourth day back. This evening, driving past Sunnyside park, I was struck breathless by the beauty of the ocean. As the car journeyed along the quiet road, the pinks of the sky danced with the silhouetted evergreen trees on the hills, and I truly felt home. The hills rolled like the waves of my beloved ocean as the sun set in brilliant colors. Although I will miss Tennessee, (well mostly Union and my friends, sorry south) I am beyond thrilled to be back in my darling Washington.

Glad to be home in Washington!

Glad to be home in Washington!

P.S. I don’t think I can ever live in a place where I cannot see the ocean.

Project 365 – Day 139
Rachel

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