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P365 – Day 104

In Kathy’s absence, I find myself driven to write a blog to break the silence. Perhaps her recent phone call explains my motivation:

“If you can lay on the couch in good conscience and read your book while there is no blog posting for today or yesterday, then go right ahead,” Kathy suggested. So here I am, taking up the sacred keyboard out of sheer guilt.

Truth be told, I would never dare to take up the actual sacred keyboard, that is, Kathy’s cool wireless keyboard. Somehow, in spite of the fact that I am the resident computer professional, her computer is the best and newest one, with the biggest monitor, and (much to my chagrin) the comfiest chair. I’m writing from a straight-backed chair at my own tiny desk in the corner, having (finally) outlasted the kids and their incessant Webkinz playing. Such idle amusements are not permitted on Kathy’s computer.

Today we celebrated my Mom’s birthday, cheerfully ignoring the fact that her birthday was on Wednesday. In keeping with her own character, and (perhaps) in honor of our recent attempts to reduce our expenses, Mom asked for work instead of presents. We piled into the van at about 7:20 this morning (shudder) and drove out to the Duckabush, where we spent about 2 1/2 hours pulling Oregon Grape fragments out of what seemed like acres of muddy hillside.

Mom and Daniel working on a stubborn root
We had a competition to see who could get the longest root segment — of course, mine was the longest, although Grandma and Daniel made a creditable effort.

We planted 20-some trees (Dad said they were Turkish firs, but I wasn’t fooled) with the help of Chaplain Ted, who has been staying out at the Duckabush and was duped into being part of this project.

David and Sarah hauling trees
David and Sarah were very helpful planting each tree and marking them with little orange flags.

As energies flagged, Grandpa entertained the kids with tractor rides (and promptly ran out of gas). We broke for lunch (hot dogs at the Gazebo) and stalled until the rain settled in. We played games and read stories and enjoyed cake, hoping that the rain would continue so we wouldn’t have to go back out and do more clearing. As is often the case in the Spring, the sun shone brightly while the rain poured down for much of the afternoon.

We couldn't find the elders, so we laid hands on it ourselves.
It turns out that playing with the tractor was a lot more fun than pulling Oregon Grape out of a hillside.

It was a fun day, and Mom seemed to enjoy it. I was very proud of my children, who did very little complaining or whining, at least on a per-capita basis. Joshua, Rachel and Daniel plugged away at the ground-cover removal, and Rachel kept a stiff upper lip about an outbreak of hives (apparently aggravated by the cold temperatures). David and Sarah worked with Chaplain Ted to plant a number of the so-called Turkish firs, and even I managed to keep my whining down to a low mumble.

Buried Treasure
Chaplain Ted shows the proper way to plant a tree.

I took a few minutes to walk around the main lodge of The Refuge, admiring the progress made since my last visit. The kids and I agreed that we disliked the yellow and blue outside wall coloring — funny that Grandma and Grandpa would put so much effort into designing such a beautiful lodge and yet neglect such basic asthetic matters.

Main Refuge Lodge
Grandpa claims that logs will cover up the unsightly blue and yellow, but we’re not fooled.

On the way home we saw the most spectacular rainbow, which, of course, I didn’t capture with my camera. It was a double rainbow, and it was very deep and vibrant with color — so much so, that there seemed to be two nearly complete rainbows mapped out in the bands of the primary half-ring. As we drove along, it seemed the rainbow ended just a few hundred yards away in the marshlands — we were tempted to go hunting for a pot o’ gold, or at least a box of Lucky Charms.

A rainbow on the way home
This is not the rainbow that we saw … it was another rather pathetic one … but I was determined to have SOME kind of picture of a rainbow.

When we arrived home, Joshua made us pancakes while I collapsed on Doughboy (our couch, not a slow-moving family pet). I was very proud of him — he is on dinner dishes duty, which meant that he had to clean up everything as well — he is a very diligent and cheerful boy who we are beginning to rely upon a little too heavily. As I struggled to wake up enough to work on my Sunday School class, he even decorated the downstairs with crepe paper streamers for Daniel’s birthday tomorrow. Truly, a delightful boy.

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P365 – Day 100 (Easter Eggs)

I like to think of holidays (including birthdays) as sort of fluid. There’s no need to be bound by the actual date, is there? In our house, we open Christmas presents for a good week. It isn’t that we have so many gifts (although with five children there is certainly a respectable pile under the tree) but that we like to S…T…R…E…T…C…H out our Christmas celebrations. Once the last present is open, it means Christmas is over.

where's the dye?

Although my primary Love Language is probably quality time, I have a strong love of gifts. It seems rather shallow in comparison to some of the other gifts. Although maybe you aren’t supposed rank the 5 love languages – I guess that kind of defeats the purpose of understanding people feel loved in different ways and in order to make them FEEL loved, you need to speak the language that communicates best to them.

Still, I feel a bit childish to admit that a present makes me happy. What am I, five? None the less, it’s true and I’ve come to accept it about myself. Thankfully I have a husband who LOVES to give presents almost as much as I enjoy receiving them. Aren’t we a wonderful team! One year my birthday lasted for several weeks with Tim bringing out a steady stream of presents. It was heavenly!!

bowls of color

I digress (it was all that talk of presents, got me a bit giddy). I was hoping a discussion on elaborate, stretched out celebrations would distract everyone from the fact that today’s pictures revolve around dying Easter eggs.

And Easter was several days ago. Sigh. I blame this terrible breech in egg dying protocol on my mother in law. I also blame my mother. My mother in law went and caught the flu this Easter. Now how are we supposed to dye Easter eggs and eat jelly beans and chocolate all day if Grandma is sick? Especially if I am on record as being generally opposed to candy and rely on the grandparents to provide my children with confections of all sorts. Some people have no respect for proper traditions.

dan, josh, andrew

2000 boys

Daniel, Joshua and Andrew wait patiently for Grandma to fire the starter pistol on the great Egg Dying Competition of 2000.

rachel's working hard

Rachel’s hogging the blue in 2000.

And my mother? She loves dying Easter eggs. She will work hard to gather some children (even if they are grown up, not a single one of them under the age of 10, or even 25) for an afternoon of Easter egg dying. She does, however, live in Michigan. Yes, Michigan. That is MUCH too far to go for an afternoon of egg dying. Some years our family has managed to combine our Michigan visit with Easter (truly a worthy feat).

phil and daniel

Here my brother, Phil, and Daniel work hard at their eggs in 2004.

sarah and jenn
more sarah and jenn

It’s 2004 and Sarah lets Aunt Jenn help her a little bit but eventually she wants to get her hands on that spoon and do some dipping herself.

Of course, this produces ONE yellow egg and some very messy fingers requiring serious cleaning up.

cleaning up sarah

With all these mothers not cooperating a bit, it’s amazing we managed to dye Easter eggs at all. Thankfully we had an episode of Bonanza to console and buoy our spirits. Afterward, it was time for some serious egg work.

How can we possibly eat any of the children’s precious works of art? “No, don’t eat the [insert color here] one!” With five children (and parents who want to play with the pretty colors as well), how many eggs do you need to hard boil? How many egg salad sandwiches can one family eat? How long do hard boiled eggs last? These are significant questions. I remember talking to my mother last week.

“Are you ready for your company, Mom?
“Oh, yes. We’ll have an easy lunch, that’s all settled. I’m worried about something else, though.”
“Oh dear, what’s wrong?”
“How many eggs do I boil? How many will each person want to dye? 3? 4? More than that? I’m a bit concerned.”
Pause.
“Um, Mom, is Dan coming over with the kids?”
“No, it’ll just be the four of us. Thom and Jenn are coming for lunch. But you know your father, he always surprises me and wants to do his fair share of Easter egg dying.”
“I’m sure you’ll work it out, Mom.”

rachel and david

So, you see, some of the great questions in life must be puzzled out each year.

Happy Late Easter Egg Dying!!

Kathy

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P365 – Day 98 (Happy Easter)

He is Risen Indeed!

We went to the early church service today. As a family of seven, we take up almost a whole pew just by ourselves. Tim convinced us to go to the 8 am service this morning so visitors could enjoy our favorite pew at the later (and more populated) services. Oof! I know it wasn’t a sunrise service (and I have to admit I’m grateful) but it was still a bit early for this sleepy family. Especially since we were out late the night before. Tim even left early to go and pray for the pastor before church.

Can you say Prayer Warrior in the training? Or maybe Prayer Armor Bearer? Prayer Serf? Something like that.

purple couple

We had a delicious pancake breakfast after the service, served by the high school youth group. No dishes to wash, which makes my day (and the children who push paper plates as often as they can). We had a good group join us for Sunday School (studying I Corinthians 14). Lively discussion on prophecy and tongues.

Our Easter guests canceled because of illness. Sniff, sniff. No Grandma and Grandpa time. I decided to still prepare a nice Easter dinner. The temptation to slap some of those paper plates on the table and call it lunch was strong, but I resisted.

easter dinner

Inspired by Joshua’s dinner presentation the night before (blog entry on that still coming), I picked out a pretty tablecloth and even managed to find some placemats and cloth napkins that vaguely coordinated. The kids begged to use the crystal goblets. I think they just like making the crystal ‘sing’ (by rubbing their fingertips around the top of the glass). Ah, we’re a classy bunch. Rachel had already changed into her play clothes so her matching purple outfit was nowhere in sight. Use your imagination.

After a lovely dinner, I snuck away to the couch and fell asleep for a little bit (amidst two computer games and the other general ruckus). Tim and the children cleaned up much of the kitchen. Daniel ran off and got me a blanket and pillow so I could nap in comfort.

My nap was short lived but precious. We managed to clean up the house and get it ready for company, all the while leaving just enough time to watch an episode of Bonanza. Ah, yes; I think this little treasure is going to be a new family favorite. What’s not to love? At least 400 episodes (all in color), brothers, guns, bad guys versus good guys, all resolved in one hour. The boys (and I include Tim in that group) were captivated. Our company arrived just as the show was coming to an end. Tim forbade us to watch the conclusion until he gets home from work tomorrow. Pure torture!

We spent all evening playing games with friends from our Small Group. We started off with a few rousing rounds of Scum (always popular with church groups), moved on to teach the crowd Bang (where you basically attempt to kill the other players) and returned to Scum as a finale. Tim and Don snuck in two games of chess while the outlaws and sheriff were duking it out in Bang.

We ate a casual dinner. Some of the children joined us for games. Rachel was the Bang Consultant – running back and forth helping people with their cards. The little ones played with dolls and cars and the like. It was a very fun evening.

daniel and em

Daniel spent some time holding baby Emily.

Hope you enjoyed your Resurrection Weekend and spent some time with friends or family.

Kathy

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Good Friday

Our church had a communion Good Friday service this evening. A gentleman sang Ray Boltz’s powerful song, Watch the Lamb. Tim and I both love this song and the gentleman singing introduced it by asking the congregation to imagine what it would be like to have been in Jerusalem during the time these momentous events were taking place.

When we got home, I happened to see a friend’s blog had a posting titled, Watch the Lamb. In it she had a You Tube video of the Ray Boltz song, complete with clips from the Passion of Christ. We watched it as a family and were all touched by the images of Christ going to the cross. The older children have seen different movies depicting Christ’s last days (our all time favorite is the Visual Bible Matthew) but still Rachel and Daniel were moved to see how beaten and bloody Jesus was on the cross. David was rather shocked by it all.

I don’t know how to put a YouTube clip on to the blog at this point (and my web guru, Tim, is already in bed) so go to Yvonne’s site and click on the play button. Watch the Lamb is a moving song about a man who goes to Jerusalem with his two little boys and gets swept into carrying Jesus’ cross.

Happy Good Friday to you all! Praise God for sending His son to die on the cross for us, that we could have eternal life with Him.

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die…” John 11:25-26a

How are you celebrating this Resurrection weekend?

Kathy

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P365 – Day 93 (Visiting Toddler)

We had the privilege of babysitting a friend’s little one this afternoon. The kids were so excited! Several days ago I asked Rachel to remind me that we had C. coming over (I’ve been known to forget important things like this in the past).

The children took me serious and started reminding me several times a day. Sarah was the worst, I mean, most helpful. She would tell me over and over that C. was coming over and then proceed to ask me what time would he be here. I’m not sure she really understood the concept of 3 pm. It’s after lunch but not evening. Afternoon? Snack time? Those are interesting but not very descriptive words.

Finally the day and hour and toddler arrived. Daniel and Sarah were his most solicitous fans. Oh, they gathered toys and blankets (in case he might fall over). They brought him books and more toys. They set up an elaborate game with a container full of balls. Basically Daniel would stand behind C. (making sure he didn’t fall) while Sarah handed him super balls. C. would throw them at the chair and the wall and occasionally Sarah. I over heard Daniel say, “Sarah, give him the ball then run out of the way fast!”

sarah ballC. throws ballmore ball time

Later on it was time to feed the little guy. Again, Daniel and Sarah practically fell over themselves to be helpful. They got him buckled into Sarah’s chair, made sure he had a bib, heated up his food, and then fed him a tasty dinner. It made me realize how big Sarah is and how long it has been since we’ve had a baby in the house. For so long it seemed I was always HAVING babies. The first three are close in age and then came along the younger two. Daniel was a little younger than Sarah is now when David was born. Sarah, however, is the baby of the family and hasn’t ever been the Big Sister, with a little one in her charge. She certainly worked hard today, caring for C.

feeding C.sarah helpssarah and Daniel feed c.

Notice Sarah’s open mouth. She’s helping, all right. What a good little babysitter.

The kids were a bit chagrined at C.’s insistence that I hold him. They would have been content to take care of him all by themselves. He seemed to realize this and made sure I was nearby at all times. Smart fella.

Thanks for letting us watch him, J. It was a fun afternoon.

Kathy

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